Avoiding drama at all costs.
Be fairly pleasant (nice) to everyone and keep your mouth shut. You may divulge your actual opinions to one or two people who you trust. Keep in mind that the ones closest to you can do you the most harm.
Getting involved with drama is a waste of time, and as you know, I am a very outspoken, opinionated girl but did not pay dearly for it in college.
Make friends and be merry! Don't talk shit about other people unless you want them to know not to talk to you anymore.
This is the number one way to get rid of someone. You just talk shit, they get angry and may confront you, and once the confrontation is over, you don't have to worry about them anymore because your real friends will stand by you. The fake (or dumb) ones will side with the other.
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Er... Marrianne told me to comment so here goes.
Alot of things are tied into how well you do in College. One of these things is mood.
People suffer more so in college than in High school because the surroundings are different or its the first time your away from your parents. Avoiding drama is easier said than done.
Your ability to study, sleep, and follow-thru on a lot of the things your sister commented on are dependent on mood. :D
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